SEXUAL ORIENTATION

Where do you fall on the sexual spectrum?

The original Kinsey scale reduced sexual orientation to a single number from 0 to 6, which was revolutionary in 1948 but limited today. Research since then has mapped sexual orientation across multiple independent dimensions, attraction, behaviour, fantasy, and emotional preference, which often point in different directions within the same person. This assessment maps all four. There are no right or wrong placements.

Klein Sexual Orientation Grid (Klein, 1985); Kinsey et al. (1948)
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Question 1 of 7
Screen 1 of 3, Attraction
Physical and sexual attraction: the people I find physically attractive are…
1 = Only opposite sex7 = Only same sex
Screen 1 of 3, Attraction
Romantic attraction: the people I could fall in love with are…
1 = Only opposite sex7 = Only same sex
Screen 1 of 3, Fantasy
Fantasy: the people who appear in my erotic thoughts and daydreams are…
1 = Only opposite sex7 = Only same sex
Screen 2 of 3, Behaviour and history
Looking at my actual romantic and sexual history, my experiences have been with…
Screen 2 of 3, Behaviour and history
If there were no social pressures or consequences, I would prefer…
Screen 3 of 3, Identity
My own sense of my sexual identity today is…
Screen 3 of 3, Identity
Compared to a few years ago, my sense of my sexuality has…
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What is the Kinsey scale?

The Kinsey scale was developed by Alfred Kinsey and published in Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (1948) and Sexual Behavior in the Human Female (1953). It is a seven-point scale from 0 (exclusively heterosexual) to 6 (exclusively homosexual), with a category X for those reporting no socio-sexual contact or reactions. Kinsey’s research found that sexual behaviour and attraction in human populations could not be adequately described by the binary categories of heterosexual and homosexual, and that a substantial proportion of the population reported experiences or attractions somewhere in between.

Fritz Klein subsequently critiqued the original scale for capturing only current attraction on a single dimension and developed the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid (1985), which measures attraction, behaviour, fantasy, emotional preference, social preference, lifestyle, and self-identification, each separately and for past, present, and ideal periods. This assessment draws on Klein’s multi-dimensional approach while producing a Kinsey-equivalent composite score for orientation.

What does a score of 3 mean on the Kinsey scale?

A score of 3 on the Kinsey scale indicates equal attraction to people of both the opposite and same sex, which Kinsey described as “equally heterosexual and homosexual.” In modern terms, this corresponds most closely to bisexual or pansexual attraction patterns. Research using Kinsey-style measurements consistently finds that more people report scores in the 2-4 range than popular discourse about sexual orientation implies. The original binary framing of heterosexual versus homosexual understated the frequency of attraction patterns in the middle of the scale.

Is sexual orientation fixed?

The scientific consensus is that sexual orientation is not consciously chosen and is relatively stable for most people across their lifetime, but not universally so. Research on sexual fluidity, particularly Lisa Diamond’s longitudinal studies of women, has documented meaningful change in attraction patterns and identity labels over time in a subset of individuals. This fluidity appears more common for women than men in the published research, though this may partly reflect differences in how attraction is expressed and reported. The stability of sexual orientation does not mean it is immutable for everyone, but change is typically neither deliberate nor easily controllable.

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Frequently asked questions

Kinsey used a combination of interview data on sexual history, current patterns, and psychological reactions. He developed the scale as a research tool for describing the distribution of sexual behaviour in a sample, not as a self-assessment instrument. His original rating was based on the proportion of actual sexual experiences and psychological responses (fantasies, attractions) directed toward the same sex versus the opposite sex. Critically, the rating was intended to reflect current behaviour and responses, not a permanent category. Kinsey explicitly rejected the idea of fixed homosexual and heterosexual identities, which he saw as socially constructed labels that distorted the underlying continuous distribution he found in the data.

Kinsey’s specific figures, including the widely cited 10% homosexual figure, have not been fully replicated in modern representative samples and were based on samples that overrepresented prisoners and volunteers, who are not representative of the general population. More recent nationally representative survey data, such as Gallup’s 2024 tracking poll showing 7.6% of US adults identifying as LGBT+, suggests lower proportions than Kinsey’s figures. However, the core finding that sexual behaviour and attraction exist on a continuum, rather than in binary categories, has been consistently replicated across modern research using behavioural, attraction, and identity measures.

Research consistently finds that the proportion of people reporting some same-sex attraction is larger than the proportion who identify as gay or lesbian, and larger again than the proportion who report same-sex behaviour. This gap between attraction, behaviour, and identity reflects several factors: social stigma affecting disclosure, the threshold required before a person adopts an identity label, the distinction between occasional and predominant attraction, and genuine differences in how individuals interpret and categorise their experience. Klein’s grid explicitly separates these dimensions because they often diverge meaningfully within the same person.

The Kinsey scale was not designed to capture asexuality, which Kinsey categorised separately as the X category (no socio-sexual contact or reactions). People who experience little or no sexual attraction may find that the standard scale does not adequately represent their experience, since the scale assumes the presence of sexual attraction and only asks about its direction. The Klein grid includes social preference and emotional preference dimensions that may capture some aspects of asexual or aromantic experience, but the scale as typically used focuses on the dimension of sexual attraction direction rather than intensity.

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Data sources
  • Kinsey AC, Pomeroy WB, Martin CE. Sexual Behavior in the Human Male. W.B. Saunders; 1948.
  • Klein F, Sepekoff B, Wolf TJ. Sexual orientation: a multi-variable dynamic process. Journal of Homosexuality. 1985;11(1-2):35–49.
  • Gallup. LGBT Identification in U.S. Ticks Up to 7.6%. January 2024.
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